A woman starting talking to me when I was the grocery this past sunday and with a little luck it happened to be the type of girl I'm attracted to. So after talking to her for a bit I got the feeling from her body language that she seemed to be into me. I asked her out and she said yes but didn't have my cell phone on my to save her number or anything to write her number on and neither did she but she asked me what my last name was and that she would add me to facebook. After a few days I got no friend request but I knew some people who work at the hospital where she told me she works and one of them happened to know her name, so I added her and sent a small message asking how things are going. Well she accepted the friend request but didn't reply to my message. So would it be a sign that she's not interested since she didn't initially add me herself or reply to the message? I know I know, I'm saying to myself Billy your acting a little needy but its hardy not to get excited when you get yes from a girl your attracted to when you haven't had much luck.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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