"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A question on ****Y+FUNNY

peacefire

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how do u know when to stop the ****y funny??
how do u know when ur being too ****y??
how do u know when ur being too funny??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mothballs

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All girls are different, each one requires a different mixture, some may need very little ****y and lots of funny... some may want almost none of either or lots of both. It all boils down to being able to read them... gotta get used to reading body language and other mannerisms that suggest they are uncomfortable with your approach, so you can tell when to tone things down or turn up the heat. I know this is kinda useless, but I can't describe what cues tell me when to change gears or stay on track... After years of developing my social skills all I can say is that I've learned to read people like it's an instinct.
 

ALPHAROMEO

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i don t think u should stop but whatever you say if ever she takes the sarcastic remark badly , NEVER apologize!!!!

you shouldn t ever stop busting her balls cos the oppor
tunities to do so are not many in the course of a convo

whenever she says something that lends to you being ****Y and FUNNY go for it !!!
 
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