"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A question on ****Y+FUNNY

peacefire

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how do u know when to stop the ****y funny??
how do u know when ur being too ****y??
how do u know when ur being too funny??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mothballs

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All girls are different, each one requires a different mixture, some may need very little ****y and lots of funny... some may want almost none of either or lots of both. It all boils down to being able to read them... gotta get used to reading body language and other mannerisms that suggest they are uncomfortable with your approach, so you can tell when to tone things down or turn up the heat. I know this is kinda useless, but I can't describe what cues tell me when to change gears or stay on track... After years of developing my social skills all I can say is that I've learned to read people like it's an instinct.
 

ALPHAROMEO

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i don t think u should stop but whatever you say if ever she takes the sarcastic remark badly , NEVER apologize!!!!

you shouldn t ever stop busting her balls cos the oppor
tunities to do so are not many in the course of a convo

whenever she says something that lends to you being ****Y and FUNNY go for it !!!
 
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