"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A question on pregnancies.

Chillisauce

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Hey, todays been pretty rough on me. I just thought i'd post the question which has been plagueing me.

What is the chance of your girlfriend getting pregnant while on the pill AND when you consistantly use condoms?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chillisauce

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cause she is :(, that leaves only a few options

- I won the lottery in reverse.
- She lied to me about the pill.
- She's been fvcking someone else who hasnt been using a dom.

If she decides to have it i'll be asking for a paterninity test, really not a turn for the best .. this is really the last thing i want right now.
 

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Get that parentity test. It could have been a freak of nature. Look in your garbage (condom, the pills), examine the pills to see if she's been taking them..
 

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If she skipped a few pills one month, it could be enough to cause the entire month's worth to fail.

That plus a leaky condom would do it...

OTOH I'd get a DNA test no matter what. But some states actually don't recognize them as a way of getting out of child support!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Chillisauce

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I live in Australia, child support isnt the issue for me. If she decides to have it and its mine, then i'll feel responsible for helping raise it. Does anyone know a good way to bring up the option of abortion? Shes not religious and i don't believe she wants a child yet either.
 
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