"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A question on pregnancies.

Chillisauce

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Hey, todays been pretty rough on me. I just thought i'd post the question which has been plagueing me.

What is the chance of your girlfriend getting pregnant while on the pill AND when you consistantly use condoms?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Chillisauce

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cause she is :(, that leaves only a few options

- I won the lottery in reverse.
- She lied to me about the pill.
- She's been fvcking someone else who hasnt been using a dom.

If she decides to have it i'll be asking for a paterninity test, really not a turn for the best .. this is really the last thing i want right now.
 

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Get that parentity test. It could have been a freak of nature. Look in your garbage (condom, the pills), examine the pills to see if she's been taking them..
 

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If she skipped a few pills one month, it could be enough to cause the entire month's worth to fail.

That plus a leaky condom would do it...

OTOH I'd get a DNA test no matter what. But some states actually don't recognize them as a way of getting out of child support!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Chillisauce

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I live in Australia, child support isnt the issue for me. If she decides to have it and its mine, then i'll feel responsible for helping raise it. Does anyone know a good way to bring up the option of abortion? Shes not religious and i don't believe she wants a child yet either.
 
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