"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Let's say you asked this girl out on this day, and she said she's not free due to blah blah blah. And we're giving her 3 chances. How long would you wait before you try to get her out again? :moon:
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Did she counter offer. Think about this logically if a hot chick asked you out but you had plans, you would say I am busy on friday but how is saturday, you would make plans with her. If she gave you no feedback or a counter she is not interested. At best do not talk to her for 5 - 6 days then call her up and ask her out. Let her think you are popular, and busy. If you keep asking her out, doing what your doing, you are going to get the same result.
 
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What you have to do is ask her if she wants to hang out and then if she says yes, ask her when she'll be available.
It's really hard when a girl is being passive agressive though and you have to address the issue.

"I feel like you'd rather not hang out because it seems like you're always busy. Please be honest with me and let me know if you want to or not."

She'll be impressed with your honesty there if thats a side of you shes never seen.
 
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I'm in the Mood said:
What you have to do is ask her if she wants to hang out and then if she says yes, ask her when she'll be available.
It's really hard when a girl is being passive agressive though and you have to address the issue.

"I feel like you'd rather not hang out because it seems like you're always busy. Please be honest with me and let me know if you want to or not."

She'll be impressed with your honesty there if thats a side of you shes never seen.
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This sounds like supplication.

I always try to make the dates for the same day. Call her up one morning and ask her if she wants to do X with you in a couple hours. Try to make sure in advance that she will be available at that time.

Persistance is a good trait too have as long as you have the confidence and the personality to go along with it. But you must know when persistance is just wasting your time, and move on.
 
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Dont bother calling her. You gave it 3 tries and were passed up, its time to move on.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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