"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Let's say you asked this girl out on this day, and she said she's not free due to blah blah blah. And we're giving her 3 chances. How long would you wait before you try to get her out again? :moon:
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Did she counter offer. Think about this logically if a hot chick asked you out but you had plans, you would say I am busy on friday but how is saturday, you would make plans with her. If she gave you no feedback or a counter she is not interested. At best do not talk to her for 5 - 6 days then call her up and ask her out. Let her think you are popular, and busy. If you keep asking her out, doing what your doing, you are going to get the same result.
 
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What you have to do is ask her if she wants to hang out and then if she says yes, ask her when she'll be available.
It's really hard when a girl is being passive agressive though and you have to address the issue.

"I feel like you'd rather not hang out because it seems like you're always busy. Please be honest with me and let me know if you want to or not."

She'll be impressed with your honesty there if thats a side of you shes never seen.
 
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I'm in the Mood said:
What you have to do is ask her if she wants to hang out and then if she says yes, ask her when she'll be available.
It's really hard when a girl is being passive agressive though and you have to address the issue.

"I feel like you'd rather not hang out because it seems like you're always busy. Please be honest with me and let me know if you want to or not."

She'll be impressed with your honesty there if thats a side of you shes never seen.
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This sounds like supplication.

I always try to make the dates for the same day. Call her up one morning and ask her if she wants to do X with you in a couple hours. Try to make sure in advance that she will be available at that time.

Persistance is a good trait too have as long as you have the confidence and the personality to go along with it. But you must know when persistance is just wasting your time, and move on.
 
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Dont bother calling her. You gave it 3 tries and were passed up, its time to move on.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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