So over the summer I met a woman who I got to be attracted to me. I didn't really run routines or game on purpose, it just came naturally. As they say, after a while game is internalized. Anyhow, I had a girlfriend at the time and it gave me some pleasure to put her into the friendzone. The attraction stayed, and this (I have to admit) was a boost to my ego. To this day, the attraction is there. However, the longer I put her in the friendzone the lower it will be. That's not the issue though. The issue is I fear my ego is now dependent on her being attracted to me. I know this is bad. Any suggestions as to what I can do to make sure this doesnt happen? Control my ego?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
A question for the experienced/masters. Involving Ego.
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