"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A Question About Hot Babes?

Maximus Rex

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Often times on this site, I will somebody describe a woman as a HB 7.5, HB 7, or even a HB 6.5, or HB 6. Hell I saw somebody describe a chick as a HB 5. My question is, isn't describing a woman as HB that's less than an 8 (and argument can be made against an 8 being a Hot Babe,) a misnomer or a contradiction in terms?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NewJack

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The really confusing thing is to realize that everyone else's HB8+ is your HBI'mNotInterestedInHer.

Having a number's scale implies universality. If you ever sit down with your friends and discuss where women rank, the numbers will be different. At least, that has been my experience.

Theories of attraction don't measure attraction, they measure people's social-consensus appraisals of other peoples' looks. This could be more accurately called 'cuteness'. Women judge one another's cuteness all the time, but because they aren't actually sexually attracted (Im assuming!), they are just judging 'cuteness'. Until you actually want to have sex with the person or be physical with them, you are not attracted. They were not measuring attraction to the computer generated faces, they were measuring 'perceived cuteness' which is something different in my experience.
 

Zarky

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Technically -- and I remember this from alt.seduction.fast -- you're not supposed to use "HB" with anything lower than an 8. Some used to use it with 7s but that was frowned upon. 6s and below an absolute no-no.

These days the HB is used less to refer to "hot babe" than it is to indicate that the number following it is referring to the attractiveness of a woman. Still pretty strange to see with 5s and 6s though.
 
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