"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A Question About Hot Babes?

Maximus Rex

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Often times on this site, I will somebody describe a woman as a HB 7.5, HB 7, or even a HB 6.5, or HB 6. Hell I saw somebody describe a chick as a HB 5. My question is, isn't describing a woman as HB that's less than an 8 (and argument can be made against an 8 being a Hot Babe,) a misnomer or a contradiction in terms?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NewJack

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The really confusing thing is to realize that everyone else's HB8+ is your HBI'mNotInterestedInHer.

Having a number's scale implies universality. If you ever sit down with your friends and discuss where women rank, the numbers will be different. At least, that has been my experience.

Theories of attraction don't measure attraction, they measure people's social-consensus appraisals of other peoples' looks. This could be more accurately called 'cuteness'. Women judge one another's cuteness all the time, but because they aren't actually sexually attracted (Im assuming!), they are just judging 'cuteness'. Until you actually want to have sex with the person or be physical with them, you are not attracted. They were not measuring attraction to the computer generated faces, they were measuring 'perceived cuteness' which is something different in my experience.
 

Zarky

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Technically -- and I remember this from alt.seduction.fast -- you're not supposed to use "HB" with anything lower than an 8. Some used to use it with 7s but that was frowned upon. 6s and below an absolute no-no.

These days the HB is used less to refer to "hot babe" than it is to indicate that the number following it is referring to the attractiveness of a woman. Still pretty strange to see with 5s and 6s though.
 
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