"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A Question About Hot Babes?

Maximus Rex

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Often times on this site, I will somebody describe a woman as a HB 7.5, HB 7, or even a HB 6.5, or HB 6. Hell I saw somebody describe a chick as a HB 5. My question is, isn't describing a woman as HB that's less than an 8 (and argument can be made against an 8 being a Hot Babe,) a misnomer or a contradiction in terms?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NewJack

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The really confusing thing is to realize that everyone else's HB8+ is your HBI'mNotInterestedInHer.

Having a number's scale implies universality. If you ever sit down with your friends and discuss where women rank, the numbers will be different. At least, that has been my experience.

Theories of attraction don't measure attraction, they measure people's social-consensus appraisals of other peoples' looks. This could be more accurately called 'cuteness'. Women judge one another's cuteness all the time, but because they aren't actually sexually attracted (Im assuming!), they are just judging 'cuteness'. Until you actually want to have sex with the person or be physical with them, you are not attracted. They were not measuring attraction to the computer generated faces, they were measuring 'perceived cuteness' which is something different in my experience.
 

Zarky

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Technically -- and I remember this from alt.seduction.fast -- you're not supposed to use "HB" with anything lower than an 8. Some used to use it with 7s but that was frowned upon. 6s and below an absolute no-no.

These days the HB is used less to refer to "hot babe" than it is to indicate that the number following it is referring to the attractiveness of a woman. Still pretty strange to see with 5s and 6s though.
 
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