"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A problem in my cold approaching.

ExcelNPrevail

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This has happened 3 times already, and it has really gotten on my nerves. I approached 3 different girls and they say something along the lines of this," I think you have me confused with someone else." When i first heard that being said to me i thought "rejection"....fu(k it. Then i heard it 2 more times, and now i dont get it. Is it me taking the "talk to the girl like you've known her your whole life" thing too far, or I'm I coming off too soft? All where cold approaches as well, I just wanted to note you guys on that. Any advice?

Also I think 3 different approaches consisting of the same outcome is too quick to make a generalization on my approaches but i just wanted to get advice from you guys so I can maybe prevent it in the future.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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619joe

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Well it doesnt help much if you dont say WHAT you did now does it?
 

ARrocket

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lol....maybe you took that advice too literally. I hope you didn't go up to her and say "hey, long time no see! How have you been??"
 
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