"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A problem in my cold approaching.

ExcelNPrevail

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This has happened 3 times already, and it has really gotten on my nerves. I approached 3 different girls and they say something along the lines of this," I think you have me confused with someone else." When i first heard that being said to me i thought "rejection"....fu(k it. Then i heard it 2 more times, and now i dont get it. Is it me taking the "talk to the girl like you've known her your whole life" thing too far, or I'm I coming off too soft? All where cold approaches as well, I just wanted to note you guys on that. Any advice?

Also I think 3 different approaches consisting of the same outcome is too quick to make a generalization on my approaches but i just wanted to get advice from you guys so I can maybe prevent it in the future.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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619joe

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Well it doesnt help much if you dont say WHAT you did now does it?
 

ARrocket

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lol....maybe you took that advice too literally. I hope you didn't go up to her and say "hey, long time no see! How have you been??"
 
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