"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A problem in my cold approaching.

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ExcelNPrevail

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This has happened 3 times already, and it has really gotten on my nerves. I approached 3 different girls and they say something along the lines of this," I think you have me confused with someone else." When i first heard that being said to me i thought "rejection"....fu(k it. Then i heard it 2 more times, and now i dont get it. Is it me taking the "talk to the girl like you've known her your whole life" thing too far, or I'm I coming off too soft? All where cold approaches as well, I just wanted to note you guys on that. Any advice?

Also I think 3 different approaches consisting of the same outcome is too quick to make a generalization on my approaches but i just wanted to get advice from you guys so I can maybe prevent it in the future.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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619joe

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Well it doesnt help much if you dont say WHAT you did now does it?
 
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lol....maybe you took that advice too literally. I hope you didn't go up to her and say "hey, long time no see! How have you been??"
 
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