"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Let's just say you start talking to this girl and you go for the #close. She says yes...

A problem that alot of people have is when to make that first phone call. I've had this problem myself for a good long time.

So, I got this girls phone number in my hand, I've made sure that it's her real number, I've made sure that she actually answers the phone.

Then I tell her "well, my friends always talk about this... do you prefer that i call you tomorrow and seem like a stalker, or do you prefer that I wait a few days and seem uninterested?"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think this is a crap idea.

If you're sarcastic, you might be able to pull it off, but in general, I'd say no.
 

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How about just asking "whats the best time to reach you?"

That way you also are able to avoid calling if she at work and such.
 

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Or, just to be a punk you can ask her when it's best to reach her, call her when you know she can't answer, and tease her about being deaf and not hearing her phone.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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you can give it a try, if you get a good resposnse at least like 8 times out of 10 then its good....but i highly doubt it would be something good to say? I think that by asking her that youre basically asking her how to run your own game...
 

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ok, I can tell that you guys are taking this at face value.

At the same time, you are communicating that you know how the game works. The answers that you get aren't going to be "I want you to seem like a stalker" or "I want you to seem uninterested" but something simpler, like 'call me whenever you like, but I work...' or something to that effect.

This isn't meant to be some breakthrough, but it does give you a little bit more insight into the woman you are macking...

This is no different than the line when the girl hesitates to give her number : 'Don't worry, I'll only call you 5 times a day and more on weekends.'
 
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