"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Let's just say you start talking to this girl and you go for the #close. She says yes...

A problem that alot of people have is when to make that first phone call. I've had this problem myself for a good long time.

So, I got this girls phone number in my hand, I've made sure that it's her real number, I've made sure that she actually answers the phone.

Then I tell her "well, my friends always talk about this... do you prefer that i call you tomorrow and seem like a stalker, or do you prefer that I wait a few days and seem uninterested?"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think this is a crap idea.

If you're sarcastic, you might be able to pull it off, but in general, I'd say no.
 
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How about just asking "whats the best time to reach you?"

That way you also are able to avoid calling if she at work and such.
 
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Or, just to be a punk you can ask her when it's best to reach her, call her when you know she can't answer, and tease her about being deaf and not hearing her phone.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you can give it a try, if you get a good resposnse at least like 8 times out of 10 then its good....but i highly doubt it would be something good to say? I think that by asking her that youre basically asking her how to run your own game...
 
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ok, I can tell that you guys are taking this at face value.

At the same time, you are communicating that you know how the game works. The answers that you get aren't going to be "I want you to seem like a stalker" or "I want you to seem uninterested" but something simpler, like 'call me whenever you like, but I work...' or something to that effect.

This isn't meant to be some breakthrough, but it does give you a little bit more insight into the woman you are macking...

This is no different than the line when the girl hesitates to give her number : 'Don't worry, I'll only call you 5 times a day and more on weekends.'
 
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