Seven months ago I hooked up with my friend's (let's call him Dave) ex-gf (but they were still seeing each other and they still are). Dave stopped talking to me but her and I started getting really close. A few months ago Dave started talking to me again and through the entire 7 months that I've been seeing her, she's been seeing Dave as well (everyone was fully aware of it). Well, him and I got sick of her doing this to us (because we both really like her) and we decided that it wasn't right (there was a bunch of other problems too, but they're unimportant) what she was doing to us so we both planned to drop her from our lives at the same time.
Well, plans didn't work out. Now him and her are back together and it's really hard on me. We both still like each other but I really don't want to backstab Dave again, even though it's so tantalizing. I'm pretty sure I could convince her to start seeing me secretly but I'm not sure if that's the best idea. I like her so much and it's hard being just friends but I HAVE to be something. I can't just not talk to her. She's my closest and best friend now.
I don't know what to do. Do I try and carry on a secret relationship with her (like how we had when we first hooked up) or do I deal with us being just friends and hope to eventually get over her? The problem with getting over her is all my friends say it's hard when you still talk to the girl, but as I said earlier, I can't just stop talking to her. I've tried. It's even harder because of all the jealousy I have to put up with because they're together now.
Thanks, guys.
Well, plans didn't work out. Now him and her are back together and it's really hard on me. We both still like each other but I really don't want to backstab Dave again, even though it's so tantalizing. I'm pretty sure I could convince her to start seeing me secretly but I'm not sure if that's the best idea. I like her so much and it's hard being just friends but I HAVE to be something. I can't just not talk to her. She's my closest and best friend now.
I don't know what to do. Do I try and carry on a secret relationship with her (like how we had when we first hooked up) or do I deal with us being just friends and hope to eventually get over her? The problem with getting over her is all my friends say it's hard when you still talk to the girl, but as I said earlier, I can't just stop talking to her. I've tried. It's even harder because of all the jealousy I have to put up with because they're together now.
Thanks, guys.