"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A neg about bright white teeth.

PeterCrouch

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I need one, and cant think of one.

Anyone got any of the top of there head?

Ta
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Here is one I always use, gets a great laugh and isn't too offending...

Me: oh my god! your teeth are so white/straight/perfect... Are they real???
Her: hahahahaha ofcourse!
Me: no way! I don't believe you, can i touch them???
then move your hand towards her mouth as if you are actually going to do it
Her: NO!!!! hahahaha
Me: ha! I knew it!

Then take it from there. You can even use this as a cold approach. But make sure you are smiling and do it in a c+f way.
 

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Fash said:
Here is one I always use, gets a great laugh and isn't too offending...

Me: oh my god! your teeth are so white/straight/perfect... Are they real???
Her: hahahahaha ofcourse!
Me: no way! I don't believe you, can i touch them???
then move your hand towards her mouth as if you are actually going to do it
Her: NO!!!! hahahaha
Me: ha! I knew it!

Then take it from there. You can even use this as a cold approach. But make sure you are smiling and do it in a c+f way.
that is cool as hell, i'll have to try that one
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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