"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

A MYSpace Coalition

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Faded Image

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2004
Messages
428
Reaction score
7
Age
45
Location
Fort Bragg, NC
I would love to join but I due to the number of times i've been caught up due to websites like myspace, I think i'll keep my friends' list to a minimum.

http://www.myspace.com/ballencinco
 

thederekeffect1

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 15, 2005
Messages
515
Reaction score
7
Age
41
Location
Duluth, MN
Well, I'll give you three reasons why I'm not joining.

One:

DrBeard said:
Add me too homie! ALL of u can add me + u r welcome to share some of my biatches!

http://www.myspace.com/drbeard
Two:

No name value. It's kind of mean, but you've only been here a few days and you want some of the experienced members to come along with you.That's part of the reason that the only members you have tagging along with you are... Well, see #1.

Three:

It's MySpace. Enough said.
 

dragonsexpress

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 4, 2006
Messages
23
Reaction score
0
thederekeffect1 said:
Well, I'll give you three reasons why I'm not joining.

One:



Two:

No name value. It's kind of mean, but you've only been here a few days and you want some of the experienced members to come along with you.That's part of the reason that the only members you have tagging along with you are... Well, see #1.

Three:

It's MySpace. Enough said.
actually, i highly prefer experienced dj'ers to lead the group experience. i have no intensions of taking the leader role so soon ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

The Juan and only

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2005
Messages
805
Reaction score
8
Age
38
Location
United Kingdom
dragonsexpress said:
actually, i highly prefer experienced dj'ers to lead the group experience. i have no intensions of taking the leader role so soon ;)

The only flaw with that plan lies in the fact that no "experienced dj'ers" would even take part in this. Now I'm not trying to dis your ideas here, but I think thederekeffect1 pretty much said it all.

(even if you don't want to lead points 1 and 3 were VERY valid)

good luck anyways..:crazy:
 

T Money

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 9, 2006
Messages
343
Reaction score
3
Age
42
Location
California
My only friends on MySpace are people I actually know. It's not a popularity contest for me.
 

Enjin 7

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 30, 2005
Messages
194
Reaction score
1
I'll say I have a decent amount of experience lol.

myspace is a funny thing. Just have fun with it.
 

dragonsexpress

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 4, 2006
Messages
23
Reaction score
0
k, you guys are right.. myspace killed me.. i'm getting msgs from sixteen year old girls who dont know their head from their ass... Bad plan!!


eek! guess its time to close up shop on myspace.
 

iluvfemales

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 19, 2004
Messages
31
Reaction score
0
Location
Long Island
Honestly Myspace works fine for me. If your between 16 and 28 then your in. I just browse for girls within a 5 mile radius then send them messages. Then I get there screen name and then after talking to them for a few day's I get there number. I got two of my friends into it too and they got layed within a month.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

chaosphere

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2006
Messages
29
Reaction score
0
Location
Los Angeles
Don't be fooled by chumps who don't know how to work this particular site... myspace has worked wonderfully for me, and it's a great way to keep your network up and spit game while not seeming too interested.

It shouldn't be the be-all, end-all of your game, nor should it be your first line of offense, but it can be a valuable tool for social proof and networking if used properly.
 

dragonsexpress

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 4, 2006
Messages
23
Reaction score
0
chaosphere said:
Don't be fooled by chumps who don't know how to work this particular site... myspace has worked wonderfully for me, and it's a great way to keep your network up and spit game while not seeming too interested.

It shouldn't be the be-all, end-all of your game, nor should it be your first line of offense, but it can be a valuable tool for social proof and networking if used properly.

Chaos then you have show me cuz I'm getting e-mails back from HBs but I just dont know how to follow up with them. I usually throw them a ****y funny comment that kinda indirectly teases them, and they respond.. but then where to go from there is beyond me.. help!
 
Top