"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A MYSpace Coalition

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I would love to join but I due to the number of times i've been caught up due to websites like myspace, I think i'll keep my friends' list to a minimum.

http://www.myspace.com/ballencinco
 

thederekeffect1

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Well, I'll give you three reasons why I'm not joining.

One:

DrBeard said:
Add me too homie! ALL of u can add me + u r welcome to share some of my biatches!

http://www.myspace.com/drbeard
Two:

No name value. It's kind of mean, but you've only been here a few days and you want some of the experienced members to come along with you.That's part of the reason that the only members you have tagging along with you are... Well, see #1.

Three:

It's MySpace. Enough said.
 

dragonsexpress

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thederekeffect1 said:
Well, I'll give you three reasons why I'm not joining.

One:



Two:

No name value. It's kind of mean, but you've only been here a few days and you want some of the experienced members to come along with you.That's part of the reason that the only members you have tagging along with you are... Well, see #1.

Three:

It's MySpace. Enough said.
actually, i highly prefer experienced dj'ers to lead the group experience. i have no intensions of taking the leader role so soon ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dragonsexpress said:
actually, i highly prefer experienced dj'ers to lead the group experience. i have no intensions of taking the leader role so soon ;)

The only flaw with that plan lies in the fact that no "experienced dj'ers" would even take part in this. Now I'm not trying to dis your ideas here, but I think thederekeffect1 pretty much said it all.

(even if you don't want to lead points 1 and 3 were VERY valid)

good luck anyways..:crazy:
 

T Money

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My only friends on MySpace are people I actually know. It's not a popularity contest for me.
 

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I'll say I have a decent amount of experience lol.

myspace is a funny thing. Just have fun with it.
 

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k, you guys are right.. myspace killed me.. i'm getting msgs from sixteen year old girls who dont know their head from their ass... Bad plan!!


eek! guess its time to close up shop on myspace.
 

iluvfemales

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Honestly Myspace works fine for me. If your between 16 and 28 then your in. I just browse for girls within a 5 mile radius then send them messages. Then I get there screen name and then after talking to them for a few day's I get there number. I got two of my friends into it too and they got layed within a month.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't be fooled by chumps who don't know how to work this particular site... myspace has worked wonderfully for me, and it's a great way to keep your network up and spit game while not seeming too interested.

It shouldn't be the be-all, end-all of your game, nor should it be your first line of offense, but it can be a valuable tool for social proof and networking if used properly.
 

dragonsexpress

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chaosphere said:
Don't be fooled by chumps who don't know how to work this particular site... myspace has worked wonderfully for me, and it's a great way to keep your network up and spit game while not seeming too interested.

It shouldn't be the be-all, end-all of your game, nor should it be your first line of offense, but it can be a valuable tool for social proof and networking if used properly.

Chaos then you have show me cuz I'm getting e-mails back from HBs but I just dont know how to follow up with them. I usually throw them a ****y funny comment that kinda indirectly teases them, and they respond.. but then where to go from there is beyond me.. help!
 
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