She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yeah if you are a step daddy. I disagree if you are just fvcking. Plus, the welfare state is so generous to single mothers that I find the damsel in distress to find a step daddy might be exaggerated.
Thats needless to say. If you want a woman you get all her baggage with it.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I've dated a single mum or two, and never once did I walk in harboring thoughts to the effect of "I'm going to be the man of the house"... I stated outright that I wasn't in the market to marry anyone. These gals were A-OK with the arrangement and never once requested financial aid
I think there is always the risk you catch a feeling if she's exceptional and playing her cards smart, unless you're experienced, read the warning signs in time, and have a very strong, tight frame.
If this is really happening then you aren’t treating a plate like a plate. I’m not taking plates out to candle light dinners and making sweet love to them afterwards. Plates are being seen once a week MAX.