A must-watch , why not dating/marring a single mom.

[The Diver]

I know it's obvious, and we talked about it here before, but this video is a must-watch, especially for those who entertain the thought of marrying a single mom. It explains why you shouldn't marry a single mom and the stepfather trap.
Also, read the comments if you have time, they're insane.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I didn’t watch the video, but does it matter if you never see the kid? Plus, I thought most guys on here were cold approach kings pump and dumping 9s on constant rotation with little investment needed because their game is immaculate.

Help me understand how a single mom can possibly be a problem in this situation? I have always pursued women with the end goal of a ltr, so I avoided single moms regardless of their looks. If I was pursuing women with the end goal of just pumping and dumping, I really wouldn’t give a fvck.

 

[Gamisch]

Well..I geuss it never hurts to repeat the basics;

a single mother isn't for the faint of heart. You gotta bee ready to;

- accept you will never be her priority
- expect you'llhave to set dates around the scheduleof the kid
- be expected to invest in kids that ain't yours
- not having the authority to set the kid straight when necessary
- be in constant contact with the baby daddy
- perhaps beef with her baby daddy
- baby daddy will constantly push ,trying to create cracks in your relationship with her Trying to get her back
- eventually get the mental blow of losing a kid you've bonded with
- getting pushed aside like you were nothing

 

[CornbreadFed]

Well..I geuss it never hurts to repeat the basics;

a single mother isn't for the faint of heart. You gotta bee ready to;

- accept you will never be her priority
- expect you'llhave to set dates around the scheduleof the kid
- be expected to invest in kids that ain't yours
- not having the authority to set the kid straight when necessary
- be in constant contact with the baby daddy
- perhaps beef with her baby daddy
- baby daddy will constantly push ,trying to create cracks in your relationship with her Trying to get her back
- eventually get the mental blow of losing a kid you've bonded with
- getting pushed aside like you were nothing

Yeah if you are a step daddy. I disagree if you are just fvcking. Plus, the welfare state is so generous to single mothers that I find the damsel in distress to find a step daddy might be exaggerated.

 

[Gamisch]

Yeah if you are a step daddy. Completely wrong if you are just fvcking.

Thats needless to say. If you want a woman you get all her baggage with it.

If the arrangement is to "just F" every kinda struggle becomes obsolete. You could be involved with a married woman and "just F " and bypass most bs.

And even then, just F long term is an illusion. Someone ALWAYS catches feelings...

 

[BaronOfHair]

I've dated a single mum or two, and never once did I walk in harboring thoughts to the effect of "I'm going to be the man of the house"... I stated outright that I wasn't in the market to marry anyone. These gals were A-OK with the arrangement and never once requested financial aid

YMMV though, depending on factors like the social circles one is running in. There are segments of The US where women like THIS

are endemic, and likely WILL be fishing around for a marriage proposal after the first couple dinners at Denny's

 

[The Diver]

I didn’t watch the video, but does it matter if you never see the kid? Plus, I thought most guys on here were cold approach kings pump and dumping 9s on constant rotation with little investment needed because their game is immaculate.

Help me understand how a single mom can possibly be a problem in this situation? I have always pursued women with the end goal of a ltr, so I avoided single moms regardless of their looks. If I were pursuing women with the end goal of just pumping and dumping, I really wouldn’t give a fvck.

I think there is always the risk you catch a feeling if she's exceptional and playing her cards smart, unless you're experienced, read the warning signs in time, and have a very strong, tight frame.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Thats needless to say. If you want a woman you get all her baggage with it.

I think there is always the risk you catch a feeling if she's exceptional and playing her cards smart, unless you're experienced, read the warning signs in time, and have a very strong, tight frame.

If this is really happening then you aren’t treating a plate like a plate. I’m not taking plates out to candle light dinners and making sweet love to them afterwards. Plates are being seen once a week MAX.