"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A must-watch , why not dating/marring a single mom.

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I know it's obvious, and we talked about it here before, but this video is a must-watch, especially for those who entertain the thought of marrying a single mom. It explains why you shouldn't marry a single mom and the stepfather trap.
Also, read the comments if you have time, they're insane.

 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I didn’t watch the video, but does it matter if you never see the kid? Plus, I thought most guys on here were cold approach kings pump and dumping 9s on constant rotation with little investment needed because their game is immaculate.

Help me understand how a single mom can possibly be a problem in this situation? I have always pursued women with the end goal of a ltr, so I avoided single moms regardless of their looks. If I was pursuing women with the end goal of just pumping and dumping, I really wouldn’t give a fvck.
 

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Well..I geuss it never hurts to repeat the basics;

a single mother isn't for the faint of heart. You gotta bee ready to;

- accept you will never be her priority
- expect you'llhave to set dates around the scheduleof the kid
- be expected to invest in kids that ain't yours
- not having the authority to set the kid straight when necessary
- be in constant contact with the baby daddy
- perhaps beef with her baby daddy
- baby daddy will constantly push ,trying to create cracks in your relationship with her Trying to get her back
- eventually get the mental blow of losing a kid you've bonded with
- getting pushed aside like you were nothing
 

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Well..I geuss it never hurts to repeat the basics;

a single mother isn't for the faint of heart. You gotta bee ready to;

- accept you will never be her priority
- expect you'llhave to set dates around the scheduleof the kid
- be expected to invest in kids that ain't yours
- not having the authority to set the kid straight when necessary
- be in constant contact with the baby daddy
- perhaps beef with her baby daddy
- baby daddy will constantly push ,trying to create cracks in your relationship with her Trying to get her back
- eventually get the mental blow of losing a kid you've bonded with
- getting pushed aside like you were nothing
Yeah if you are a step daddy. I disagree if you are just fvcking. Plus, the welfare state is so generous to single mothers that I find the damsel in distress to find a step daddy might be exaggerated.
 
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Yeah if you are a step daddy. Completely wrong if you are just fvcking.
Thats needless to say. If you want a woman you get all her baggage with it.

If the arrangement is to "just F" every kinda struggle becomes obsolete. You could be involved with a married woman and "just F " and bypass most bs.

And even then, just F long term is an illusion. Someone ALWAYS catches feelings...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've dated a single mum or two, and never once did I walk in harboring thoughts to the effect of "I'm going to be the man of the house"... I stated outright that I wasn't in the market to marry anyone. These gals were A-OK with the arrangement and never once requested financial aid

YMMV though, depending on factors like the social circles one is running in. There are segments of The US where women like THIS
are endemic, and likely WILL be fishing around for a marriage proposal after the first couple dinners at Denny's
 

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I didn’t watch the video, but does it matter if you never see the kid? Plus, I thought most guys on here were cold approach kings pump and dumping 9s on constant rotation with little investment needed because their game is immaculate.

Help me understand how a single mom can possibly be a problem in this situation? I have always pursued women with the end goal of a ltr, so I avoided single moms regardless of their looks. If I were pursuing women with the end goal of just pumping and dumping, I really wouldn’t give a fvck.
I think there is always the risk you catch a feeling if she's exceptional and playing her cards smart, unless you're experienced, read the warning signs in time, and have a very strong, tight frame.
 

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Thats needless to say. If you want a woman you get all her baggage with it.
I think there is always the risk you catch a feeling if she's exceptional and playing her cards smart, unless you're experienced, read the warning signs in time, and have a very strong, tight frame.
If this is really happening then you aren’t treating a plate like a plate. I’m not taking plates out to candle light dinners and making sweet love to them afterwards. Plates are being seen once a week MAX.
 
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