Every time I shoot my shot women ignore me or say "Oh no!" like I'm an alien or something. On the internet it is even worse... they just block me. As far as I see it there is not any real difference between me and the guys that do get women... so I don't get it. I give up on women, they're weird. Dating isn't for me.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
A Mini-Vent: Just Saying I Give Up On Women
- Thread starter b.l.g.k.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Serenity
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That's how I met my girlfriend, no joke. I had just given up and started doing whatever I wanted, independent of the outcome. I still talked to women, but I had no intention to try get them. Didn't care if what I did could be considered flirting, it wasn't intentional. Strangely enough I found myself in a situation of success at what I had been trying to do for so long, but I wasn't trying anymore.
It wasn't dating any more, it was just "come over to my place" and what happens happens. I was content not going anywhere with it, but I went the ways I previously failed to go. Rejection wasn't rejection anymore it was just "whatever, I'll do some other fun thing today". It just didn't affect me.
So I'm telling you, what you're about to do is the way to freedom and success. Whether you get a woman or not, being unaffected by having or not having one simply cannot fail. Stop taking shots intentionally, do what you feel like doing in the moment and not because you depend upon a desired outcome.
marmel75
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The one constant in all of this is YOU.
Its time you take a cold hard look in the mirror at what you need to work on in your life whether that be taking care of yourself better by going to the gym, dressing better, feeling better about yourself, etc.
If you dont bring much to the table, how can you be upset with women for not bending over backwards for you?
What do you bring to the table that a woman would want? And I'm not talking about what YOU THINK she would want...I'm talking about what she actually would want.
If you talk to many different women under different circumstances and get the same result then its not them, its you.
Its time you take a cold hard look in the mirror at what you need to work on in your life whether that be taking care of yourself better by going to the gym, dressing better, feeling better about yourself, etc.
If you dont bring much to the table, how can you be upset with women for not bending over backwards for you?
What do you bring to the table that a woman would want? And I'm not talking about what YOU THINK she would want...I'm talking about what she actually would want.
If you talk to many different women under different circumstances and get the same result then its not them, its you.
Yeah need a lot more info. I'm not sure how you think a random woman suck kind of post is going to help you.
Life has its ups and downs and so does your dating life.
We advicate two things here self-improvement and understanding the nature of woman. Either of those things will improve your results. Taken together they will improve your results and make your results repeatable.
Life has its ups and downs and so does your dating life.
We advicate two things here self-improvement and understanding the nature of woman. Either of those things will improve your results. Taken together they will improve your results and make your results repeatable.
This guy gets it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.