"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Duasun

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I am a newbie, and i need some help with this SS tehnique.

This girl avoid me constantly, but i can talk to her on the phone.

Can i do some of this t. on the phone, and what should i do?

Please help...

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nope! Not yet! I gave myself a promise!
I can't let her go now!
 
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When you give a promise, do you work it out?
 
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HuuBinh

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if you dont want to next the girl, u can use ss techniques. What i want to know is why does she avoid you? I need to know the reason in order to make the pattern more concrete. More details about your situation would help me a lot. Let me know, then i'll send u a PM.
 
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I'd say it's pretty obvious why she's avoiding him.
ONE-ITIS.
It's a pretty disturbing thing to see in action. In fact, what you said is the equvalent of 'I promised myself I wouldn't leave her alone until I made her mine'.
I'd argue that you should drop her in order to straighten your head, but it sounds like you're too far gone to listen to that advice. Instead, perhaps you should go out with someone else. Hear me out on this one. If you go out with someone else, and it gets back to the other person that you're dating around, AND you avoid contact with your oneitis, then you might have a chance. Maybe. And who knows? You might just find someone you like more than your current infatuation.

P.S.
http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=33203&highlight=oneitis
Does this sound like you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lol, just because you can talk to her on the phone doesn't mean jack ****...next her, she is nobody special. trust us, and next her.
 
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