"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Duasun

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I am a newbie, and i need some help with this SS tehnique.

This girl avoid me constantly, but i can talk to her on the phone.

Can i do some of this t. on the phone, and what should i do?

Please help...

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nope! Not yet! I gave myself a promise!
I can't let her go now!
 
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When you give a promise, do you work it out?
 
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HuuBinh

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if you dont want to next the girl, u can use ss techniques. What i want to know is why does she avoid you? I need to know the reason in order to make the pattern more concrete. More details about your situation would help me a lot. Let me know, then i'll send u a PM.
 
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I'd say it's pretty obvious why she's avoiding him.
ONE-ITIS.
It's a pretty disturbing thing to see in action. In fact, what you said is the equvalent of 'I promised myself I wouldn't leave her alone until I made her mine'.
I'd argue that you should drop her in order to straighten your head, but it sounds like you're too far gone to listen to that advice. Instead, perhaps you should go out with someone else. Hear me out on this one. If you go out with someone else, and it gets back to the other person that you're dating around, AND you avoid contact with your oneitis, then you might have a chance. Maybe. And who knows? You might just find someone you like more than your current infatuation.

P.S.
http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=33203&highlight=oneitis
Does this sound like you?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lol, just because you can talk to her on the phone doesn't mean jack ****...next her, she is nobody special. trust us, and next her.
 
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