"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A MF Newbie

Duasun

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I am a newbie, and i need some help with this SS tehnique.

This girl avoid me constantly, but i can talk to her on the phone.

Can i do some of this t. on the phone, and what should i do?

Please help...

:)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nope! Not yet! I gave myself a promise!
I can't let her go now!
 

Duasun

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When you give a promise, do you work it out?
 
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HuuBinh

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if you dont want to next the girl, u can use ss techniques. What i want to know is why does she avoid you? I need to know the reason in order to make the pattern more concrete. More details about your situation would help me a lot. Let me know, then i'll send u a PM.
 

abcd_z

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I'd say it's pretty obvious why she's avoiding him.
ONE-ITIS.
It's a pretty disturbing thing to see in action. In fact, what you said is the equvalent of 'I promised myself I wouldn't leave her alone until I made her mine'.
I'd argue that you should drop her in order to straighten your head, but it sounds like you're too far gone to listen to that advice. Instead, perhaps you should go out with someone else. Hear me out on this one. If you go out with someone else, and it gets back to the other person that you're dating around, AND you avoid contact with your oneitis, then you might have a chance. Maybe. And who knows? You might just find someone you like more than your current infatuation.

P.S.
http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=33203&highlight=oneitis
Does this sound like you?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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die4me

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lol, just because you can talk to her on the phone doesn't mean jack ****...next her, she is nobody special. trust us, and next her.
 
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