"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Duasun

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I am a newbie, and i need some help with this SS tehnique.

This girl avoid me constantly, but i can talk to her on the phone.

Can i do some of this t. on the phone, and what should i do?

Please help...

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nope! Not yet! I gave myself a promise!
I can't let her go now!
 
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When you give a promise, do you work it out?
 
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HuuBinh

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if you dont want to next the girl, u can use ss techniques. What i want to know is why does she avoid you? I need to know the reason in order to make the pattern more concrete. More details about your situation would help me a lot. Let me know, then i'll send u a PM.
 
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I'd say it's pretty obvious why she's avoiding him.
ONE-ITIS.
It's a pretty disturbing thing to see in action. In fact, what you said is the equvalent of 'I promised myself I wouldn't leave her alone until I made her mine'.
I'd argue that you should drop her in order to straighten your head, but it sounds like you're too far gone to listen to that advice. Instead, perhaps you should go out with someone else. Hear me out on this one. If you go out with someone else, and it gets back to the other person that you're dating around, AND you avoid contact with your oneitis, then you might have a chance. Maybe. And who knows? You might just find someone you like more than your current infatuation.

P.S.
http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=33203&highlight=oneitis
Does this sound like you?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lol, just because you can talk to her on the phone doesn't mean jack ****...next her, she is nobody special. trust us, and next her.
 
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