"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A Masculine Culture toward Women

ChristopherColumbus

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With the collapse of the old order, men today need to develop their own personal culture toward women. This will involve a self-determining posture, a setting of boundaries, a set of policies, and a general recognition that we are back in a state of nature between the sexes where life is ‘solitary, poor, nasty, brutish and short’. Self-determination no longer applies just to the nation-state, but to men also.

A masculine culture toward women will also be a politics of sorts, whereby you have developed a set of policies which range from those women who are as yet completely outside your sphere of influence [the barbarians], to those that you have entered into an alliance with, to those you have incorporated within your own borders whereby you share a civil life. This culture will also be militant. It will seek to defend its own existence and its ideals whilst also looking to extend its rule of law.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Treating most women like hoes seems to work pretty well (sadly).

The media depiction of women is usually fraudulent. Women in movies are like real women in the same way talking cartoon animals are like real animals.
 

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Treating most women like hoes seems to work pretty well (sadly).

The media depiction of women is usually fraudulent. Women in movies are like real women in the same way talking cartoon animals are like real animals.
Sure, that's one way to go. But I wonder if that's just the case of playing the women's game, or out-playing them.

I wonder if a more masculine approach would be to develop your own culture, and then have the right kind of more appreciative women gravitate into that. Of course, this would screen out most women. And it would be a lot less work.

In terms of game, this is very much all about inner game... if it can really be called that.
 

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Sure, that's one way to go. But I wonder if that's just the case of playing the women's game, or out-playing them.

I wonder if a more masculine approach would be to develop your own culture, and then have the right kind of more appreciative women gravitate into that. Of course, this would screen out most women. And it would be a lot less work.

In terms of game, this is very much all about inner game... if it can really be called that.
Nothing matters unless you have VALUE. If a woman can't look at you and say to herself.. "That guy has something I want".. nothing else you do matters.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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