"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A Masculine Culture toward Women

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With the collapse of the old order, men today need to develop their own personal culture toward women. This will involve a self-determining posture, a setting of boundaries, a set of policies, and a general recognition that we are back in a state of nature between the sexes where life is ‘solitary, poor, nasty, brutish and short’. Self-determination no longer applies just to the nation-state, but to men also.

A masculine culture toward women will also be a politics of sorts, whereby you have developed a set of policies which range from those women who are as yet completely outside your sphere of influence [the barbarians], to those that you have entered into an alliance with, to those you have incorporated within your own borders whereby you share a civil life. This culture will also be militant. It will seek to defend its own existence and its ideals whilst also looking to extend its rule of law.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Treating most women like hoes seems to work pretty well (sadly).

The media depiction of women is usually fraudulent. Women in movies are like real women in the same way talking cartoon animals are like real animals.
 

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Treating most women like hoes seems to work pretty well (sadly).

The media depiction of women is usually fraudulent. Women in movies are like real women in the same way talking cartoon animals are like real animals.
Sure, that's one way to go. But I wonder if that's just the case of playing the women's game, or out-playing them.

I wonder if a more masculine approach would be to develop your own culture, and then have the right kind of more appreciative women gravitate into that. Of course, this would screen out most women. And it would be a lot less work.

In terms of game, this is very much all about inner game... if it can really be called that.
 

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Sure, that's one way to go. But I wonder if that's just the case of playing the women's game, or out-playing them.

I wonder if a more masculine approach would be to develop your own culture, and then have the right kind of more appreciative women gravitate into that. Of course, this would screen out most women. And it would be a lot less work.

In terms of game, this is very much all about inner game... if it can really be called that.
Nothing matters unless you have VALUE. If a woman can't look at you and say to herself.. "That guy has something I want".. nothing else you do matters.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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