"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A Masculine Culture toward Women

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With the collapse of the old order, men today need to develop their own personal culture toward women. This will involve a self-determining posture, a setting of boundaries, a set of policies, and a general recognition that we are back in a state of nature between the sexes where life is ‘solitary, poor, nasty, brutish and short’. Self-determination no longer applies just to the nation-state, but to men also.

A masculine culture toward women will also be a politics of sorts, whereby you have developed a set of policies which range from those women who are as yet completely outside your sphere of influence [the barbarians], to those that you have entered into an alliance with, to those you have incorporated within your own borders whereby you share a civil life. This culture will also be militant. It will seek to defend its own existence and its ideals whilst also looking to extend its rule of law.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Treating most women like hoes seems to work pretty well (sadly).

The media depiction of women is usually fraudulent. Women in movies are like real women in the same way talking cartoon animals are like real animals.
 

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Treating most women like hoes seems to work pretty well (sadly).

The media depiction of women is usually fraudulent. Women in movies are like real women in the same way talking cartoon animals are like real animals.
Sure, that's one way to go. But I wonder if that's just the case of playing the women's game, or out-playing them.

I wonder if a more masculine approach would be to develop your own culture, and then have the right kind of more appreciative women gravitate into that. Of course, this would screen out most women. And it would be a lot less work.

In terms of game, this is very much all about inner game... if it can really be called that.
 

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Sure, that's one way to go. But I wonder if that's just the case of playing the women's game, or out-playing them.

I wonder if a more masculine approach would be to develop your own culture, and then have the right kind of more appreciative women gravitate into that. Of course, this would screen out most women. And it would be a lot less work.

In terms of game, this is very much all about inner game... if it can really be called that.
Nothing matters unless you have VALUE. If a woman can't look at you and say to herself.. "That guy has something I want".. nothing else you do matters.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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