Just a convo i was having with a plate and her friend. They were saying that a guys voice can either be a turn on or a turn off. Voice is often like scent. If a girl finds your scent or voice attractive, then its a boost to you. This is something we often overlook. There is not much we can do about your voice. There are some things you can do like try to speak more slowly and in a more deep voice. Just something I thought was interesting.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
A mans voice matters
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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The sound of someone's voice is very important. Mine is naturally low and a little rough. Women love it.
And the sound of a woman's voice is a make or break for me. If her voice is too high pitched or she runs her mouth too much, I just can't go there.
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penkitten
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You don't have to try to speak slower or deeper. It doesn't make a big enough difference in the grand scheme of it all.
But it is true that your voice is like a scent.
But it is true that your voice is like a scent.
btownbuck2012
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I've never had a whole lot of bass in my voice (which is why I avoid loud clubs, parties, etc.) BUT I do speak very well and am confident and articulate in how I speak. Now don't get me wrong, these guys with real deep voices have it made, but it's all about working to your strengths and improving those as best you can.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Yes, it matters!
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Voice and cadence (the rhythm that you speak with) can both be extremely sexy.
If you want an example of cadence, think of William Shatner's Captain Kirk on Star Trek. His cadence is not what you want to emulate really (please no - that would be ridiculous)...but it's a good example of what cadence is.
I really appreciate a good resonant voice. But it isn't a deal breaker if you are otherwise appealing.
If you want an example of cadence, think of William Shatner's Captain Kirk on Star Trek. His cadence is not what you want to emulate really (please no - that would be ridiculous)...but it's a good example of what cadence is.
I really appreciate a good resonant voice. But it isn't a deal breaker if you are otherwise appealing.
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I have a slightly effeminate sounding voice. But, it is what it is.
On the other extreme, I used to chuckle listening to a certain seduction guru (who shall remain nameless) who used to FORCE his voice to have extra bass. It sounded so tryhard.
If you naturally have the deep voice, great. If you don’t, you don’t. Don’t force it.
On the other extreme, I used to chuckle listening to a certain seduction guru (who shall remain nameless) who used to FORCE his voice to have extra bass. It sounded so tryhard.
If you naturally have the deep voice, great. If you don’t, you don’t. Don’t force it.
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Cool.Issac Hayes (1942-2008) as Chef in South Park. He had a deep voice and had good candor in character.
I’m also thinking of the 80s rapper Tone Loc. He had a very deep voice.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
backbreaker
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i sound like a southern version of mike tyson i have a very high pitched voice. stop listening to women they dont' know what the **** they want
think about the first time you gave your child a hamburger. they didn't know they awnted that mother****er til they ate it. women are the same
think about the first time you gave your child a hamburger. they didn't know they awnted that mother****er til they ate it. women are the same
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I agree with this. Was just thinking it the other day watching some reruns of Star Trek Voyager. Kes's voice alone gets me hot and bothered. A little on the deep side as women's voices go.
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It will probably have “6” in it.
1. Six feet
2. Six inches
3. Six figures
4. Voice frequency lower than 6 Hz* lol
*Just kidding. I know that’s infrasonic.