"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A mans voice matters

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Just a convo i was having with a plate and her friend. They were saying that a guys voice can either be a turn on or a turn off. Voice is often like scent. If a girl finds your scent or voice attractive, then its a boost to you. This is something we often overlook. There is not much we can do about your voice. There are some things you can do like try to speak more slowly and in a more deep voice. Just something I thought was interesting.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just a convo i was having with a plate and her friend. They were saying that a guys voice can either be a turn on or a turn off. Voice is often like scent. If a girl finds your scent or voice attractive, then its a boost to you. This is something we often overlook. There is not much we can do about your voice. There are some things you can do like try to speak more slowly and in a more deep voice. Just something I thought was interesting.
The sound of someone's voice is very important. Mine is naturally low and a little rough. Women love it.

And the sound of a woman's voice is a make or break for me. If her voice is too high pitched or she runs her mouth too much, I just can't go there.

-Augustus-
 
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You don't have to try to speak slower or deeper. It doesn't make a big enough difference in the grand scheme of it all.

But it is true that your voice is like a scent.
 

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I've never had a whole lot of bass in my voice (which is why I avoid loud clubs, parties, etc.) BUT I do speak very well and am confident and articulate in how I speak. Now don't get me wrong, these guys with real deep voices have it made, but it's all about working to your strengths and improving those as best you can.
 

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I've never had a problem with this, my natural voice is deep and resonant. But, for sh!ts and g's, I've done this trick before. Works instantly and lasts for several hours. Have fun!

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Voice and cadence (the rhythm that you speak with) can both be extremely sexy.

If you want an example of cadence, think of William Shatner's Captain Kirk on Star Trek. His cadence is not what you want to emulate really (please no - that would be ridiculous)...but it's a good example of what cadence is.

I really appreciate a good resonant voice. But it isn't a deal breaker if you are otherwise appealing.
 

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Issac Hayes (1942-2008) as Chef in South Park. He had a deep voice and had good candor in character. :up:
 

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I have a slightly effeminate sounding voice. But, it is what it is.

On the other extreme, I used to chuckle listening to a certain seduction guru (who shall remain nameless) who used to FORCE his voice to have extra bass. It sounded so tryhard.

If you naturally have the deep voice, great. If you don’t, you don’t. Don’t force it.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i sound like a southern version of mike tyson i have a very high pitched voice. stop listening to women they dont' know what the **** they want

think about the first time you gave your child a hamburger. they didn't know they awnted that mother****er til they ate it. women are the same
 

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Just one more ridiculous thing women can use to filter out men. Next Tinder will require voice submissions. lol.
 

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I agree with this. Was just thinking it the other day watching some reruns of Star Trek Voyager. Kes's voice alone gets me hot and bothered. A little on the deep side as women's voices go.
 
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