"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A mans voice matters

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Just a convo i was having with a plate and her friend. They were saying that a guys voice can either be a turn on or a turn off. Voice is often like scent. If a girl finds your scent or voice attractive, then its a boost to you. This is something we often overlook. There is not much we can do about your voice. There are some things you can do like try to speak more slowly and in a more deep voice. Just something I thought was interesting.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just a convo i was having with a plate and her friend. They were saying that a guys voice can either be a turn on or a turn off. Voice is often like scent. If a girl finds your scent or voice attractive, then its a boost to you. This is something we often overlook. There is not much we can do about your voice. There are some things you can do like try to speak more slowly and in a more deep voice. Just something I thought was interesting.
The sound of someone's voice is very important. Mine is naturally low and a little rough. Women love it.

And the sound of a woman's voice is a make or break for me. If her voice is too high pitched or she runs her mouth too much, I just can't go there.

-Augustus-
 
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You don't have to try to speak slower or deeper. It doesn't make a big enough difference in the grand scheme of it all.

But it is true that your voice is like a scent.
 

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I've never had a whole lot of bass in my voice (which is why I avoid loud clubs, parties, etc.) BUT I do speak very well and am confident and articulate in how I speak. Now don't get me wrong, these guys with real deep voices have it made, but it's all about working to your strengths and improving those as best you can.
 

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I've never had a problem with this, my natural voice is deep and resonant. But, for sh!ts and g's, I've done this trick before. Works instantly and lasts for several hours. Have fun!

 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Voice and cadence (the rhythm that you speak with) can both be extremely sexy.

If you want an example of cadence, think of William Shatner's Captain Kirk on Star Trek. His cadence is not what you want to emulate really (please no - that would be ridiculous)...but it's a good example of what cadence is.

I really appreciate a good resonant voice. But it isn't a deal breaker if you are otherwise appealing.
 

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Issac Hayes (1942-2008) as Chef in South Park. He had a deep voice and had good candor in character. :up:
 

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I have a slightly effeminate sounding voice. But, it is what it is.

On the other extreme, I used to chuckle listening to a certain seduction guru (who shall remain nameless) who used to FORCE his voice to have extra bass. It sounded so tryhard.

If you naturally have the deep voice, great. If you don’t, you don’t. Don’t force it.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i sound like a southern version of mike tyson i have a very high pitched voice. stop listening to women they dont' know what the **** they want

think about the first time you gave your child a hamburger. they didn't know they awnted that mother****er til they ate it. women are the same
 

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Just one more ridiculous thing women can use to filter out men. Next Tinder will require voice submissions. lol.
 

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I agree with this. Was just thinking it the other day watching some reruns of Star Trek Voyager. Kes's voice alone gets me hot and bothered. A little on the deep side as women's voices go.
 
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