Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Post your picture if you will.Originally posted by nan3109
well, i get offers for sex from about 5 differ girls a week and i turn down ALOT of them , pretty much all of them
This isn't faggotry, but you da man! I applaude that you for posting your picture. Unlike a few others on here whom I've called out cough Jakie wackie no wangy..cough Jb idiot...vector zilly... cough....uhh ahem.Originally posted by nan3109
ok, here's a link to it (its on face party)
http://www.faceparty.com/public/719/images/nan3111_5284344.jpg
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
hehe I dig you PSOriginally posted by Player_Supreme
I agree with PRL. man hor is one of their words to attach to men who sleep with a lot of women.
I disavow this words as I do the other one: Homophobic.
Neither has any effect on me, nor should they on you. It's just like saying goobledeebabble to me and expect me to be insulted.
a couple of them have been (or most) when we were somewhere else and headed towards my houseOriginally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Yerr figured you were goodlookingYou're actually a model too, cool
Ah ye now I remember who you areYou've posted pictures here before
Now how the F do you get that nice facialskin?
And these sexoffers, how do they happen? Situations, words said etc...![]()