"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A Man vs. A DJ

Fly By Night

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There are things I hear on this forum that I don't really believe in: like making a woman cheat on her boyfriend/husband just so I could bang her for example. I think that a DJ is different from a Man based on character. Now I don't think I have the knowledge to tell you what a DJ is, but I know that a Man is someone who has his own morals, values, and responsibilities.

If a man does not like the idea of committing adultery*, could you take away his DJ card? Maybe. But I couldn't take away his Man card for having his own morals.

I feel like I'm just babbling away, but I used to think that being a DJ and a Man were the same thing. After reading some of these posts, I'm starting to think somebody could be one and not the other. I feel like being a Man is more important, or maybe they are just the same thing and I'm missing the point?

*Don't take me as a strict religious person just because I used that term.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Le killeur

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I agree that one has to have one's own morals based on one's own beleifs and values etc. From what i can gather, a DJ is different to different people, for example some men advocate going after other guys girls, whereas others advocate not treading on a fellow man etc. Your morals are based on your own personal beliefs about what is a man and what is a Dj. Therefore i believe that one can be a man and be a DJ. It is simply based on your interpretation of the two.
 

E_Sex

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No way, you've got that all messed up. First and Foremost a DJ is a man, a man who is not afraid to speak his mind. A man who does not necessarily pursue women, but will if he is interested in one. Women do however, often pursue a DJ, because a DJ is a great catch for a woman. If you really want to know what the true essence of a DJ is, read the book of pook.
 
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