"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A Man vs. A DJ

Fly By Night

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There are things I hear on this forum that I don't really believe in: like making a woman cheat on her boyfriend/husband just so I could bang her for example. I think that a DJ is different from a Man based on character. Now I don't think I have the knowledge to tell you what a DJ is, but I know that a Man is someone who has his own morals, values, and responsibilities.

If a man does not like the idea of committing adultery*, could you take away his DJ card? Maybe. But I couldn't take away his Man card for having his own morals.

I feel like I'm just babbling away, but I used to think that being a DJ and a Man were the same thing. After reading some of these posts, I'm starting to think somebody could be one and not the other. I feel like being a Man is more important, or maybe they are just the same thing and I'm missing the point?

*Don't take me as a strict religious person just because I used that term.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Le killeur

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I agree that one has to have one's own morals based on one's own beleifs and values etc. From what i can gather, a DJ is different to different people, for example some men advocate going after other guys girls, whereas others advocate not treading on a fellow man etc. Your morals are based on your own personal beliefs about what is a man and what is a Dj. Therefore i believe that one can be a man and be a DJ. It is simply based on your interpretation of the two.
 

E_Sex

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No way, you've got that all messed up. First and Foremost a DJ is a man, a man who is not afraid to speak his mind. A man who does not necessarily pursue women, but will if he is interested in one. Women do however, often pursue a DJ, because a DJ is a great catch for a woman. If you really want to know what the true essence of a DJ is, read the book of pook.
 
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