"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A Man vs. A DJ

Fly By Night

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There are things I hear on this forum that I don't really believe in: like making a woman cheat on her boyfriend/husband just so I could bang her for example. I think that a DJ is different from a Man based on character. Now I don't think I have the knowledge to tell you what a DJ is, but I know that a Man is someone who has his own morals, values, and responsibilities.

If a man does not like the idea of committing adultery*, could you take away his DJ card? Maybe. But I couldn't take away his Man card for having his own morals.

I feel like I'm just babbling away, but I used to think that being a DJ and a Man were the same thing. After reading some of these posts, I'm starting to think somebody could be one and not the other. I feel like being a Man is more important, or maybe they are just the same thing and I'm missing the point?

*Don't take me as a strict religious person just because I used that term.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Le killeur

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I agree that one has to have one's own morals based on one's own beleifs and values etc. From what i can gather, a DJ is different to different people, for example some men advocate going after other guys girls, whereas others advocate not treading on a fellow man etc. Your morals are based on your own personal beliefs about what is a man and what is a Dj. Therefore i believe that one can be a man and be a DJ. It is simply based on your interpretation of the two.
 

E_Sex

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No way, you've got that all messed up. First and Foremost a DJ is a man, a man who is not afraid to speak his mind. A man who does not necessarily pursue women, but will if he is interested in one. Women do however, often pursue a DJ, because a DJ is a great catch for a woman. If you really want to know what the true essence of a DJ is, read the book of pook.
 
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