"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A Man ... Or A Woman?!

Guitarfreakelite

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It seems like roles have changed so much, women are becoming more and more masculin with even more testostorone... working jobs, working out, and men, ... men are now getting there hair braded, there ears pearced, whering lip gloss, and even wearing make up,.... oh yeah for all u guys not up on your fashion.. pink is now in style (4 men)

We all konw the saying: Men Love Beautifull Women and Women love rich men, money finds beauty(or something like that)

could it be that more fem men are actractied to to rich powerfull women? and more masculin women are actractied to fem men who wright poetry, and say silly stuff?

if this keeps happening this site will be outdated in a few thousand years.. cus then it wont matter if your a chick or a dude every ones levs of masculitnty and fem, will... will men allways be masculin and women fem.. is this natural.. is the only reason why we change becuse of .. the media and sociaty?

Just some of my deep thoughts on life.. (just read holy grail of dating)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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blienk

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This has been discussed many times before, and honestly...I don't think any of it really matters.

We can try to look at dating from a sociological perspective, or we can just stick with works and not worry about sh*t like this too much. Yes, gender roles are changing. This isn't big news, it's been happening over the last 100 years.

If guys want to wear pink shirts or makeup who really gives a fcuk? It's a color. It's some powder on your face. It's not a matter of life of death. Men will always have ****s and women will always have p*ssies. These physical differences will always separate us and males will always be the dominant gender, no matter how much hand moisturizer we use.
 

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I don't care how many metrosexual guys get on the cover of fashion magazines, it still boils down to Me Tarzan, You Jane, Let's Fvck.
 

Guitarfreakelite

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come on dont be lame... sopt going around it and answr the question ... what do u think whats your personal opinion on this..
 

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In a relationship you always will have an imbalance of power. Never a neutral. I think that if you have a very masculine man, he will want a woman that is passive, so he has all the power, and vice versa.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lt dan

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its just a phase in society, it will pass. men are men,we have tesosterone and they have estrogen.
the pink thing doesnt matter, if you think pink is a nice looking color then go for it.
whats happening right now is because of society and the media. but instinct will take over for the majority of the world.
 
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