"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A Man ... Or A Woman?!

Guitarfreakelite

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It seems like roles have changed so much, women are becoming more and more masculin with even more testostorone... working jobs, working out, and men, ... men are now getting there hair braded, there ears pearced, whering lip gloss, and even wearing make up,.... oh yeah for all u guys not up on your fashion.. pink is now in style (4 men)

We all konw the saying: Men Love Beautifull Women and Women love rich men, money finds beauty(or something like that)

could it be that more fem men are actractied to to rich powerfull women? and more masculin women are actractied to fem men who wright poetry, and say silly stuff?

if this keeps happening this site will be outdated in a few thousand years.. cus then it wont matter if your a chick or a dude every ones levs of masculitnty and fem, will... will men allways be masculin and women fem.. is this natural.. is the only reason why we change becuse of .. the media and sociaty?

Just some of my deep thoughts on life.. (just read holy grail of dating)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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This has been discussed many times before, and honestly...I don't think any of it really matters.

We can try to look at dating from a sociological perspective, or we can just stick with works and not worry about sh*t like this too much. Yes, gender roles are changing. This isn't big news, it's been happening over the last 100 years.

If guys want to wear pink shirts or makeup who really gives a fcuk? It's a color. It's some powder on your face. It's not a matter of life of death. Men will always have ****s and women will always have p*ssies. These physical differences will always separate us and males will always be the dominant gender, no matter how much hand moisturizer we use.
 

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I don't care how many metrosexual guys get on the cover of fashion magazines, it still boils down to Me Tarzan, You Jane, Let's Fvck.
 

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come on dont be lame... sopt going around it and answr the question ... what do u think whats your personal opinion on this..
 

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In a relationship you always will have an imbalance of power. Never a neutral. I think that if you have a very masculine man, he will want a woman that is passive, so he has all the power, and vice versa.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lt dan

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its just a phase in society, it will pass. men are men,we have tesosterone and they have estrogen.
the pink thing doesnt matter, if you think pink is a nice looking color then go for it.
whats happening right now is because of society and the media. but instinct will take over for the majority of the world.
 
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