"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A man is a sum of his memories - The good, the bad and all inbetween.

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As the topic suggest, in particular towards women and how it defines your outlook, your life, your future and your end game.

A man is the sum of his memories, will you set the terms to define your life, future and outlook before you die ?

A man is the sum of his memories, if you have none, then who are you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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As the topic suggest, in particular towards women and how it defines your outlook, your life, your future and your end game.

A man is the sum of his memories, will you set the terms to define your life, future and outlook before you die ?

A man is the sum of his memories, if you have none, then who are you?
Looks like we actually agree on something. But addition to his memories, there is also the following which really determine the “sum” of a man:

It is what he has learned from those memories and what he has done to expand his knowledge and wisdom to improve himself as a man.

And with his wisdom and experience, has he formed a set of moral beliefs, a philosophy that he adheres to that practices fairness and kindness to his family, the people he loves, and his fellow man.

And does he have the honesty and integrity to live in accordance with the philosophy he believes in? In essence, do his everyday actions reflect the philosophy he espouses?

-Augustus-
 

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Looks like we actually agree on something. But addition to his memories, there is also the following which really determine the “sum” of a man:

It is what he has learned from those memories and what he has done to expand his knowledge and wisdom to improve himself as a man.

And with his wisdom and experience, has he formed a set of moral beliefs, a philosophy that he adheres to that practices fairness and kindness to his family, the people he loves, and his fellow man.

And does he have the honesty and integrity to live in accordance with the philosophy he believes in? In essence, do his everyday actions reflect the philosophy he espouses?

-Augustus-
What has bigdave17 allowed his memories to be.
 

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We can disagree on many things but we r still "brothers" in SS.

Nice post Augustus.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The more and more I put myself out there and get demoralized a bit, I truly understand what this means.. more so recently, I understand the struggle a man has within himself to except the truth he has to face sometimes. As much as I want to bitter to the reality I face sometimes, I realize it is better to adapt than be upset..

Here's to the process I guess.... (Raises a glass)
 
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