"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A lot of weak men!

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But sarge...this MRE isn't gluten-free! ---simp half men draftees.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Apparently you are not in sales. In my company we have men getting people to commit to $100k contracts. And most women fall off. We have the top office in my company and it’s almost 100% men now.

And the same top salesmen pull women regularly during happy hour.
 

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I have heard a lot about modern men being weak but it looks it getting out to men. Currently I am in a meeting comprising of men between 20 to 30 years about 30 in all and only 4 women. But anytime women get up to speak you can hear clearly they sound confident but when gets up to speak it is like someone is holding their balls. What is happening to men these days. I am even bored at the meeting. Is this the breed of father for future girls and boys?!

We are in trouble!
If you are guy here learn how to be a man and masculine for your kids. I personally recommend Rollo Tomassi books if you haven't read it and keep reading it whenever you find yourself becoming beta.
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Weak men is 100% part of the problem. They create "princesses" like the above one that think the world owes them everything for nothing in the YouTube feed I stumbled over and weak soy boy sons that they engrain with the beta provider mindset.
 
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Weak men is 100% part of the problem. They create "princesses" like the above one that think the world owes them everything for nothing in the YouTube feed I stumbled over and weak soy boy sons that they engrain with the beta provider mindset.
Yeah, it was all done deliberately.

One thing I have fully realized is that even here at this forum reading notes, there are a lot of gay guys here. You can tell by their political nonsense.

Every straight male on earth has ingrained into them to stand up for their country and borders. Gays and women on the other hand, they just spew all this queer and wimpy rhetoric about how having your country invaded is no biggie, it’s actually a good thing to be invaded, and they defend it with complete nonsense.

Straight men are natural defenders of law and order.

No mystery why women were not allowed to vote.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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We have our differences of opinion, but when it comes to issues like race, religion, and sexual orientation, I can't just sit back and let harmful ideas go unchallenged.

While I understand that you may not be swayed by facts or traditional arguments, I think it's crucial for us to discuss the real-world consequences of holding discriminatory views. I'd like to ask you to consider how such beliefs contribute to division and harm, both on an individual and societal level.

Discrimination isn't just an abstract concept; it affects real people's lives every day. Why seek to divide instead of unite? Do you think your diatribes are actually going to change even one mind here?

me:
Caucasian
US Combat veteran
Gun owner
Business creator, and operator, net job creator.
Heterosexual
Father of successful offspring
Tax payer
Never arrested, not once
Volunteers to help the disadvantaged and disenfranchised.
Have participated in local politics
a registered Libertarian.
I mentor young men IRL.

What do you do? To contribute to the greatness of our nation?

What is wrong. Aren’t you going to call me a “racist” and “antisemitic” again?

Now you can call me a homophobe and whatever other names you call people you disagree with.

All badges of honor in my book
 
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We have our differences of opinion, but when it comes to issues like race, religion, and sexual orientation, I can't just sit back and let harmful ideas go unchallenged.

While I understand that you may not be swayed by facts or traditional arguments, I think it's crucial for us to discuss the real-world consequences of holding discriminatory views. I'd like to ask you to consider how such beliefs contribute to division and harm, both on an individual and societal level.

Discrimination isn't just an abstract concept; it affects real people's lives every day. Why seek to divide instead of unite? Do you think your diatribes are actually going to change even one mind here?

me:
Caucasian
US Combat veteran
Gun owner
Business creator, and operator, net job creator.
Heterosexual
Father of successful offspring
Tax payer
Never arrested, not once
Volunteers to help the disadvantaged and disenfranchised.
Have participated in local politics
a registered Libertarian.
I mentor young men IRL.

What do you do? To contribute to the greatness of our nation?
Sorry bud, I do not think “diversity is our strength”. I do not buy into any of the liberal/Marxist mumbo jumbo talking points.

I do not give two craps about “diversity”. It is not any countries strength especially since it has been fully weaponize.

You sound like a real dandy of a liberal guy though.
 

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I understand you're skeptical of the phrase 'diversity is our strength,' but dismissing it as liberal or Marxist rhetoric oversimplifies a complex issue.

This isn't just about politics; it's about the fabric of society. Limiting ourselves to one way of thinking stifles innovation and problem-solving. While you may be dismissive of diversity, the reality is that homogeneity can lead to stagnation. So, this isn't about being 'liberal' or 'Marxist,' it's about recognizing that a multi-faceted approach to life enriches us all.

I think it's worth having a serious conversation about this, rather than reducing it to partisan talking points.

Did you have trouble with waves of immigrants that were Caucasian? Like say the Irish?

Sorry bud, I do not think “diversity is our strength”. I do not buy into any of the liberal/Marxist mumbo jumbo talking points.

I do not give two craps about “diversity”. It is not any countries strength especially since it has been fully weaponize.

You sound like a real dandy of a liberal guy though.
 

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Sometimes you just need to isolate yourself from that which strikes against you, not inceldom but rather just a redirection of your energy towards your own purpose wholly... Men have their end of a social contract to uphold, but only if the other end holds theirs up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have heard a lot about modern men being weak but it looks it getting out to men. Currently I am in a meeting comprising of men between 20 to 30 years about 30 in all and only 4 women. But anytime women get up to speak you can hear clearly they sound confident but when gets up to speak it is like someone is holding their balls. What is happening to men these days. I am even bored at the meeting. Is this the breed of father for future girls and boys?!

We are in trouble!
If you are guy here learn how to be a man and masculine for your kids. I personally recommend Rollo Tomassi books if you haven't read it and keep reading it whenever you find yourself becoming beta.
Nothing to do about learning. Everything to do about Testosterone or lack there of.
 
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