"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
A lot of weak men!
- Thread starter alvinkels
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
tksniper
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And the same top salesmen pull women regularly during happy hour.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
Weak men is 100% part of the problem. They create "princesses" like the above one that think the world owes them everything for nothing in the YouTube feed I stumbled over and weak soy boy sons that they engrain with the beta provider mindset.
Yeah, it was all done deliberately.
One thing I have fully realized is that even here at this forum reading notes, there are a lot of gay guys here. You can tell by their political nonsense.
Every straight male on earth has ingrained into them to stand up for their country and borders. Gays and women on the other hand, they just spew all this queer and wimpy rhetoric about how having your country invaded is no biggie, it’s actually a good thing to be invaded, and they defend it with complete nonsense.
Straight men are natural defenders of law and order.
No mystery why women were not allowed to vote.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What is wrong. Aren’t you going to call me a “racist” and “antisemitic” again?
Now you can call me a homophobe and whatever other names you call people you disagree with.
All badges of honor in my book
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
While I understand that you may not be swayed by facts or traditional arguments, I think it's crucial for us to discuss the real-world consequences of holding discriminatory views. I'd like to ask you to consider how such beliefs contribute to division and harm, both on an individual and societal level.
Discrimination isn't just an abstract concept; it affects real people's lives every day. Why seek to divide instead of unite? Do you think your diatribes are actually going to change even one mind here?
me:
Caucasian
US Combat veteran
Gun owner
Business creator, and operator, net job creator.
Heterosexual
Father of successful offspring
Tax payer
Never arrested, not once
Volunteers to help the disadvantaged and disenfranchised.
Have participated in local politics
a registered Libertarian.
I mentor young men IRL.
What do you do? To contribute to the greatness of our nation?
Sorry bud, I do not think “diversity is our strength”. I do not buy into any of the liberal/Marxist mumbo jumbo talking points.
I do not give two craps about “diversity”. It is not any countries strength especially since it has been fully weaponize.
You sound like a real dandy of a liberal guy though.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
This isn't just about politics; it's about the fabric of society. Limiting ourselves to one way of thinking stifles innovation and problem-solving. While you may be dismissive of diversity, the reality is that homogeneity can lead to stagnation. So, this isn't about being 'liberal' or 'Marxist,' it's about recognizing that a multi-faceted approach to life enriches us all.
I think it's worth having a serious conversation about this, rather than reducing it to partisan talking points.
Did you have trouble with waves of immigrants that were Caucasian? Like say the Irish?
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
BackInTheGame78
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Nothing to do about learning. Everything to do about Testosterone or lack there of.