You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The lines aren't a technique. A line is a routine based of a technique. NO girl is going to say "Hey stop using C&F on me". Instead there going to be to busy having fun with you.Master Bates said:^ They may not be lines but it's still a technique. And like I said, the more public and mainstream this stuff gets, the more women are going to be aware of it and questioning every time a guy starts interacting with them.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I agree.Snow Plowman said:BUT PU is like those late night penis enlargement commericals. Guys think it's the magic pill and when they start getting into it they realize it's far from that. Just look at some of you right now.
How many of you guys actually approach women constantly? You know how many guys I've known that gave up learning this and they had a good grasp of what the game was about. That is how it will be when it gets main stream. THE AVERAGE PERSON ISN"T WILLING TO GO THROUGH THE MONTHS AND YEARS OF PRACTICE because like the Penis enlargement commerical...they want the big dik NOW. Not a slow 1/2 inch progress every 6 months.
Not unless what they're doing smells like an obvious trick or technique.Master Bates said:^ They may not be lines but it's still a technique. And like I said, the more public and mainstream this stuff gets, the more women are going to be aware of it and questioning every time a guy starts interacting with them.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.