Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The lines aren't a technique. A line is a routine based of a technique. NO girl is going to say "Hey stop using C&F on me". Instead there going to be to busy having fun with you.Master Bates said:^ They may not be lines but it's still a technique. And like I said, the more public and mainstream this stuff gets, the more women are going to be aware of it and questioning every time a guy starts interacting with them.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I agree.Snow Plowman said:BUT PU is like those late night penis enlargement commericals. Guys think it's the magic pill and when they start getting into it they realize it's far from that. Just look at some of you right now.
How many of you guys actually approach women constantly? You know how many guys I've known that gave up learning this and they had a good grasp of what the game was about. That is how it will be when it gets main stream. THE AVERAGE PERSON ISN"T WILLING TO GO THROUGH THE MONTHS AND YEARS OF PRACTICE because like the Penis enlargement commerical...they want the big dik NOW. Not a slow 1/2 inch progress every 6 months.
Not unless what they're doing smells like an obvious trick or technique.Master Bates said:^ They may not be lines but it's still a technique. And like I said, the more public and mainstream this stuff gets, the more women are going to be aware of it and questioning every time a guy starts interacting with them.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.