"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A lot of people bashing the PUA community

azanon

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I'm all for some PUA techniques to triple your success and all, but :D , ya know that mystery dude HAS to have a few STDs. If not, he truly is a God.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Snow Plowman

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Master Bates said:
^ They may not be lines but it's still a technique. And like I said, the more public and mainstream this stuff gets, the more women are going to be aware of it and questioning every time a guy starts interacting with them.
The lines aren't a technique. A line is a routine based of a technique. NO girl is going to say "Hey stop using C&F on me". Instead there going to be to busy having fun with you.

As a test go up and use a common "Pickup line". I've tested it but I'm not going to say my results because I want you to try it. The reason most of these routines don't work is because there pre-planned so it's harder to be congruent with it then something that just popped up in you're head.

If you just so happened to pop all these stuff out to say based on a technique then you wouldn't need no routines, but that takes time.

As far as them knowing your picking them up..OF COURSE they know. This is why guys don't get laid because they don't kino, because they don't want the girl to know that they like them. When I'm opening chicks I'm CLAWing in less than 30 seconds, and if they don't know I'm atleast interested then they must be slow because no man who isn't interested is going to just put there arms around her.

It's litterally imposible for sex not just STOP, even if every man knew this. Most guys aren't thinking of the girl as a human being. Just like we like sex, there at home sometimes jamming things up there little slit because all the guys around her is too scared to just approach.

Too many guys have the perception that it's only them who like sex and as if the girl is a object. I personally feel bad when I don't escalate on certain chicks whether it be me talking to someone else, or her not being attractive enough. Why? Because I know they'd love me inside them but I can't because I have other things to do so just like that I'm gone. I wish I could offer value to all the girls but I just can't I'm only 1 guy and can be only in one place at a time.

With that said this has no affect on PU...just look at "The game" how many guys have got pointed out? An if they did how many of you guys reacted, because I know just from some of the posts guys would be thinking inside "O no I got caught damn it's over" and in the end kill themselves out of a set.
 

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You guys sound a little too worried about this. If you have REAL game, you're not worried about what Mystery, or any other mainstream guy is exposing. If I were to use a technique from Mystery Method, I would tell the girl that I was doing it, make a joke out of it and have a laugh together before moving on to more useful conversation.
 

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I hear alot of whining

I agree

Honesty is the best policy. If you are using PU techniques, then you are a PUA and not a DJ, and you should accept it. If you are a real DJ, why are you concerned with what PUA's and PLayers are doing?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Snow Plowman said:
BUT PU is like those late night penis enlargement commericals. Guys think it's the magic pill and when they start getting into it they realize it's far from that. Just look at some of you right now.

How many of you guys actually approach women constantly? You know how many guys I've known that gave up learning this and they had a good grasp of what the game was about. That is how it will be when it gets main stream. THE AVERAGE PERSON ISN"T WILLING TO GO THROUGH THE MONTHS AND YEARS OF PRACTICE because like the Penis enlargement commerical...they want the big dik NOW. Not a slow 1/2 inch progress every 6 months.
I agree.

And as long as you don't wear a top hat the chicks aren't going to think you're using MM, unless they're watching and taking notes.
 

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Master Bates said:
^ They may not be lines but it's still a technique. And like I said, the more public and mainstream this stuff gets, the more women are going to be aware of it and questioning every time a guy starts interacting with them.
Not unless what they're doing smells like an obvious trick or technique.

"Hey, I need a female opinion on something, but I can't stay long..."

Being a genuine, fun, interesting guy will never fail, no matter how mainstream this all becomes. Stay away from the quick tricks and stick to the fundamentals (being a genuine guy) and you'll have an abundance of women in your life.

Kudos,
Matt
 

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To Be Honest Watching That...they Did Talk Like Geeks...they Didnt Really Look Like Geeks Though..other Than That Blonde Guy....and They Seem To Know There Stuff
 

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Fluideruption hit the nail right on the head. :up: :up:
 

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^^ ^^
dude totally what an afc...

he says he still buys flowers and stuff but didn't tell why? my friend said its probably for no reason. what a geek. come on, everyone knows that stuff is for wimps!

we're going to start a PUA league called AMUK (Alpha Male Uber Kill). it's payback time baby. turn them to the AFC's they truly are! :D no longer will they confuse our PUA community. hit me up for the first tactic of decimation.

peace!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Haha, most of those idiots dissing this sh*t are idiots who don't get any. It's obvious why these dudes aren't getting any, they talk crap. These guys are probably the guys who brag about how much p*ssy they get and then when you ask them to approach a girl they make excuses. Then they go around dissing good stuff, still bragging about how much better they are. Then again, a a majority of these guys are AFCs.
 
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