"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

A little unsure on what to do?

Skidsta

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 19, 2005
Messages
22
Reaction score
0
Location
London (currently in Sydney)
Hey guys, i've been on 2 dates with this girl - 1st was coffee - short & sweet and a kiss at the end of the date (we'd met in a club the previous week), 2nd date went bowling, to a bar then to a club - really good night and after the bar we were holding hands/touching more and in the club she was really into me, teased, flirted, kissed, etc....

I'm living in a backpackers hostel in Oz as i'm travelling (but i'm staying put in the city for a few months), and she moved in the other day as she's got a few weeks left before she goes home. This makes it hard to not see each other most days so i'm gonna be keeping myself out the way a little so as not for that to happen too much. Now we went out Monday and i bumped into her yesterday and we spoke a little, she followed me round a little but we didn't kiss, etc... With her only being here for 2-3 weeks obviously i wanna try and get some action in and i do like her a lot, any advice on my situation? Also i don't wanna come across as needy but is it ok for me to initiate the kissing, hugging, etc... but keep it limited? It's just i know she likes me (from the 2nd date & the way she was acting, talking to me, asking if i liked her & not sure how i'd act towards her the next day, etc...) and i wanna make the most of the time left but maintaining control & not being an AFC?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

dreamxhenry

Banned
Joined
Jun 20, 2006
Messages
114
Reaction score
0
Skidsta said:
Hey guys, i've been on 2 dates with this girl - 1st was coffee - short & sweet and a kiss at the end of the date (we'd met in a club the previous week), 2nd date went bowling, to a bar then to a club - really good night and after the bar we were holding hands/touching more and in the club she was really into me, teased, flirted, kissed, etc....

I'm living in a backpackers hostel in Oz as i'm travelling (but i'm staying put in the city for a few months), and she moved in the other day as she's got a few weeks left before she goes home. This makes it hard to not see each other most days so i'm gonna be keeping myself out the way a little so as not for that to happen too much. Now we went out Monday and i bumped into her yesterday and we spoke a little, she followed me round a little but we didn't kiss, etc... With her only being here for 2-3 weeks obviously i wanna try and get some action in and i do like her a lot, any advice on my situation? Also i don't wanna come across as needy but is it ok for me to initiate the kissing, hugging, etc... but keep it limited? It's just i know she likes me (from the 2nd date & the way she was acting, talking to me, asking if i liked her & not sure how i'd act towards her the next day, etc...) and i wanna make the most of the time left but maintaining control & not being an AFC?
Dude relax,just let stuff be natural and why are you posting a pointless thread it seems like you got everything going but your just over thinking stuff,RELAX!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Top