"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys, i've been on 2 dates with this girl - 1st was coffee - short & sweet and a kiss at the end of the date (we'd met in a club the previous week), 2nd date went bowling, to a bar then to a club - really good night and after the bar we were holding hands/touching more and in the club she was really into me, teased, flirted, kissed, etc....

I'm living in a backpackers hostel in Oz as i'm travelling (but i'm staying put in the city for a few months), and she moved in the other day as she's got a few weeks left before she goes home. This makes it hard to not see each other most days so i'm gonna be keeping myself out the way a little so as not for that to happen too much. Now we went out Monday and i bumped into her yesterday and we spoke a little, she followed me round a little but we didn't kiss, etc... With her only being here for 2-3 weeks obviously i wanna try and get some action in and i do like her a lot, any advice on my situation? Also i don't wanna come across as needy but is it ok for me to initiate the kissing, hugging, etc... but keep it limited? It's just i know she likes me (from the 2nd date & the way she was acting, talking to me, asking if i liked her & not sure how i'd act towards her the next day, etc...) and i wanna make the most of the time left but maintaining control & not being an AFC?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Skidsta said:
Hey guys, i've been on 2 dates with this girl - 1st was coffee - short & sweet and a kiss at the end of the date (we'd met in a club the previous week), 2nd date went bowling, to a bar then to a club - really good night and after the bar we were holding hands/touching more and in the club she was really into me, teased, flirted, kissed, etc....

I'm living in a backpackers hostel in Oz as i'm travelling (but i'm staying put in the city for a few months), and she moved in the other day as she's got a few weeks left before she goes home. This makes it hard to not see each other most days so i'm gonna be keeping myself out the way a little so as not for that to happen too much. Now we went out Monday and i bumped into her yesterday and we spoke a little, she followed me round a little but we didn't kiss, etc... With her only being here for 2-3 weeks obviously i wanna try and get some action in and i do like her a lot, any advice on my situation? Also i don't wanna come across as needy but is it ok for me to initiate the kissing, hugging, etc... but keep it limited? It's just i know she likes me (from the 2nd date & the way she was acting, talking to me, asking if i liked her & not sure how i'd act towards her the next day, etc...) and i wanna make the most of the time left but maintaining control & not being an AFC?
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Dude relax,just let stuff be natural and why are you posting a pointless thread it seems like you got everything going but your just over thinking stuff,RELAX!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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