"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A little tragic lol

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Eternal_water

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So tiny bit of background, 21 yr old virgin who has had 1 gf in whole life. She dumped me a few years ago. Not had so much as a date/kiss since.


Until last night. samthehobbit put in another thread how the line "how about a new years kiss" got him several make outs last year. I had 2 oppurtunities to use the line myself last night and they both shoved their tongue down my throat (I wasn't complaining).

And I was a living tripod after both :crackup:

To be honest I was kinda surprised how easy it was. I have this thing in my mind where its impossible for me but not every other guy in the world.

So yeah a little tragic but oh well.

Last night brings the total number of girls I've kissed up to 3.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wow dude. I mean absolutely no offense, but you're ****ing pathetic LOL. You've been on this forum since Mar of 2012 and you FINALLY get the first, SLIGHT bit of action on new years. That's 9+ months! A baby can pop out within that time period.

Took you long enough! Now go accomplish greater tasks!!!
 
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Glad it worked out for you bro!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eternal_water said:
To be honest I was kinda surprised how easy it was. I have this thing in my mind where its impossible for me but not every other guy in the world.
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See what a little bit of confidence will do for ya? Most AFCs don't have the ba11s to use a line like that, but you pulled it off and got rewarded :up:

Keep up the field work and it will pay off.
 
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Nicee, im assuming your a pretty attractive dude cuz i dont think it would work for dudes who arent attractive
 
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Desdinova said:
See what a little bit of confidence will do for ya? Most AFCs don't have the ba11s to use a line like that, but you pulled it off and got rewarded :up:

Keep up the field work and it will pay off.
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Apparently so, I managed to kiss 2 more girls last night. (Making the grand total up to the dizzying heights of 5 lol)

Which is of course very minor for most of the dj's around here but for someone who hadn't so much as kissed a girl in around 3 years - to have have kissed 4 different girls in under a week is good progress.
 
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Eternal_water said:
Apparently so, I managed to kiss 2 more girls last night. (Making the grand total up to the dizzying heights of 5 lol)
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Dude! You've quintupled your number in less than a week!
Well done.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lol I remember when I got my third make out, it was a month later than my second and about three months after my first.

After that I got a makeout with a new girl every week for a month, and it was in a small club with maybe 50 people dancing. My best performance so far.

So good for you, keep up the good work, use the momentum you've got. :cheer:
 
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