"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A little tragic lol

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Eternal_water

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So tiny bit of background, 21 yr old virgin who has had 1 gf in whole life. She dumped me a few years ago. Not had so much as a date/kiss since.


Until last night. samthehobbit put in another thread how the line "how about a new years kiss" got him several make outs last year. I had 2 oppurtunities to use the line myself last night and they both shoved their tongue down my throat (I wasn't complaining).

And I was a living tripod after both :crackup:

To be honest I was kinda surprised how easy it was. I have this thing in my mind where its impossible for me but not every other guy in the world.

So yeah a little tragic but oh well.

Last night brings the total number of girls I've kissed up to 3.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wow dude. I mean absolutely no offense, but you're ****ing pathetic LOL. You've been on this forum since Mar of 2012 and you FINALLY get the first, SLIGHT bit of action on new years. That's 9+ months! A baby can pop out within that time period.

Took you long enough! Now go accomplish greater tasks!!!
 
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Glad it worked out for you bro!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eternal_water said:
To be honest I was kinda surprised how easy it was. I have this thing in my mind where its impossible for me but not every other guy in the world.
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See what a little bit of confidence will do for ya? Most AFCs don't have the ba11s to use a line like that, but you pulled it off and got rewarded :up:

Keep up the field work and it will pay off.
 
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Nicee, im assuming your a pretty attractive dude cuz i dont think it would work for dudes who arent attractive
 
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Desdinova said:
See what a little bit of confidence will do for ya? Most AFCs don't have the ba11s to use a line like that, but you pulled it off and got rewarded :up:

Keep up the field work and it will pay off.
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Apparently so, I managed to kiss 2 more girls last night. (Making the grand total up to the dizzying heights of 5 lol)

Which is of course very minor for most of the dj's around here but for someone who hadn't so much as kissed a girl in around 3 years - to have have kissed 4 different girls in under a week is good progress.
 
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Eternal_water said:
Apparently so, I managed to kiss 2 more girls last night. (Making the grand total up to the dizzying heights of 5 lol)
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Dude! You've quintupled your number in less than a week!
Well done.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lol I remember when I got my third make out, it was a month later than my second and about three months after my first.

After that I got a makeout with a new girl every week for a month, and it was in a small club with maybe 50 people dancing. My best performance so far.

So good for you, keep up the good work, use the momentum you've got. :cheer:
 
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